Whites are privileged in this society and having what they have serves as validation for a lot of people. Successful minorities love to say, “You’re privileged but I’m so smart and awesome and financially secure that I have the same, if not better, house, car, and woman as you.” That says some unfortunate truths about our society, but when black men date white women, we’re put in a position where we have to think about that, whether we choose it or not. Even if you’re smart enough to look at the woman you’re dating as a human and not a prized object, united states that mentality is still going to be cast upon you. You can be completely forthright and fair about whom you date but society will force you to consider these extra circumstances. I don’t walk around like, “I’M DATING A WHITE WOMAN!” I never have. I fall in love indiscriminately, but third parties will never let it be that simple for me.
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